In this episode Taylor is joined by sex and confidence coach Erika Eileen. Erika has been working in the coaching industry for 3 years now and studied Physical and Health Education as well as Gender Equality and Social Justice in university, and completed her undergraduate thesis on Social Determinants to Health in Type 1 Diabetics. They dive into Erika’s story of her own journey to self-love and how she made her way into the coaching world. Erika shares some of her biggest tips on sharing your personal thoughts and self-image online, navigating emotions, and discovering one’s path to sexual freedom. Taylor opens up about her own experience with discovering her sexuality, and this leads to a hot conversation about the strip club – including our favorite tips on how to make it work for you and your partner. Erika shares invaluable feedback on what it means to discover self-confidence and defy society’s standards, sharing tip after tip that she normally shares in a private coaching setting. Finally, Erika shares more about the inception of the Cool to Connect Intimate Deck and how it can impact your sexual relationship with your partner(s).
Looking for the noteworthy moments in this episode? We got you.
1:58 – How Erika got started in the online coaching space through her own journey of self-love.
9:27 – Erika’s process of transforming her clients through business and confidence coaching.
13:18 – Showing up authentically online & creating boundaries with social media.
17:43- Learning your three scales of information and what you should share publicly or keep to yourself.
20:26 – Erika’s relationship with TikTok as a free and open human.
22:01 – Women are constantly being categorized or judged by their emotions.
23:06 – Experiencing emotions as a human is NORMAL.
23:54 – One of the first questions to ask on a first date.
27:52 – Erika’s non-linear path to discovering her sexuality and sensuality.
34:33 – Taylor’s own take on her journey to sexuality.
36:25 – Opening ourselves up to sexual and sensual experiences.
41:40 – We love the strip clubs.
42:24 – My tip for going to the strip club with your partner.
44:52 – Having confidence and realizing none of us are in a competition.
51:45 – You’re not everyone’s cup of tea – focus on who you’re meant for.
53:25 – In order to experience life, you have to be willing to sacrifice.
1:00:21 – How to support people who aren’t like you.
1:08:14 – How Erika came to collaborate on the Cool to Connect Intimate Deck.
Stay connect with Erika on:
TikTok @itserikaeileen
www.itserikaeileen.com
Listen to Erika’s Podcast, Rated E for Erika, here.
Buy Erika’s Cool to Connect Intimate Deck here.
Listen to Erika’s sex playlists on Spotify here.
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