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The Vagina Whisperer Speaks ft. Dr. Sara Reardon

June 27, 2025

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#76: What do you actually know about your pelvic floor? Like… beyond “do your Kegels” and hope for the best?

In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Sara Reardon (also known as The Vagina Whisperer) to talk all things pelvic floor health, pain with sex, birth recovery, body awareness, and her new book Floored. Whether you’re postpartum, perimenopausal, or just tired of being dismissed by your OB, this conversation is your permission slip to start asking better questions about your body.

We get into:
 – Why “just do Kegels” is not the whole story
 – The mental health side of pelvic floor dysfunction
 – How stress, trauma, and anxiety show up in the body
 – Sara’s journey writing Floored and claiming her voice
– Why self-assessment matters way more than you think
– How to know if your pelvic floor is too tight (yep, that’s a thing)
– Normalizing the conversation around sex, leakage, and body literacy

If no one ever taught you about your pelvic floor, this episode will.The Vagina Whisperer Speaks

BUY YOUR COPY OF FLOORED HERE

Take Dr. Reardon’s Pelvic Floor Quiz Here

FIND WHAT YOU NEED FROM THE EPISODE:

00:00 – Meet the Vagina Whisperer (yes, that’s really her title)

04:50 – What the pelvic floor actually is and why you should care

07:57 – Common pelvic issues nobody tells you about until it’s too late

10:44 – Writing Floored and finding her voice in women’s health

16:49 – What pelvic floor therapists really do (spoiler: it’s not just Kegels)

19:55 – Why education about women’s bodies has to start earlier

22:45 – How your pelvic floor changes through every life season

25:56 – Small shifts that actually help your pelvic floor (and sanity)

29:29 – Why self-assessment matters more than your OBGYN visit

32:01 – Understanding pelvic floor activation (and doing it right)

36:39 – Kegels + sex: what’s helping, what’s hurting

41:24 – How to loop your partner into your pelvic health journey

44:07 – Normalizing the convo around leakage, pain, and WTF moments

46:07 – The mind-body connection no one warned us about

52:16 – What’s next for The Vagina Whisperer

CONNECT WITH DR. SARA REARDON:

On Instagram @the.vagina.whisperer

www.thevagwhisperer.com

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